Wednesday, November 16, 2011

Dealing with Cheating and How to Make Sure Your Comment is Posted

I hope all of you with an interest in junior tennis have been reading Lisa Stone's blog ParentingAces, which I mentioned last week in my post on resources for tennis parenting. Yesterday the topic was cheating, which I've explored before, and Andy Brandi addresses in one of his past Coaches Q and A entries here.

Stone has also asked several coaches the best way to handle cheating, and got several different suggestions. I remember hearing a few years ago that legendary coach Robert Lansdorp thought the rampant cheating in junior tennis was driving players from the sport, and I can't say he's wrong.

In my experience, cheating is a problem, especially in the 12s and 14s, and I've no doubt this is related to what Patrick McEnroe calls "the professionalization of youth sports" in this country, a trend that pushes younger and younger children into the position of pursuing a "career." The pressure to win naturally builds as increasing amounts of time, travel, and money are devoted to the sport, and tennis, with its "code" of calling your opponent's shots, seems increasingly anachronistic. Of course, unlike golf, which demands this self-policing, integrity-first policy even at the highest professional level, tennis does not. It results in a bewildering contrast, as we ask children, who are still sorting out their emotions and becoming acquainted with ethics, to always do the right thing, while not requiring or even allowing it from professionals who are old enough to face such situations maturely.

David Benzel, the sports parenting expert I spoke with last week, marveled at the opportunity tennis provides for these life lessons in trust and integrity, in contrast to the team sports, which rely on adult authority figures to monitor the games and their rules. I agree, but I also understand why the problem is so difficult and will always be so.

And there's another important point, an additional life lesson to teach, one that is often brushed aside or minimized when talk turns to cheating: innocent until proven guilty. One college coach I know, who also had a long professional career, told me he had never intentionally called a ball incorrectly in his life, but knows he made mistakes.

To automatically presume that a player of a particular nationality or status will cheat is unfair, and to assume every missed call is an attempt to cheat is a sign you need to move to another sport. Bad calls happen, and your child will make them too, so make sure you have ample evidence and sample size before you begin counseling on how to deal with a cheater.

I also know that once a player gets that reputation, it's very hard to shake it, even if there is no longer any evidence to support it. Try to remember that it is possible the player in question has, gasp, grown up and matured.

Lately I've been getting quite a few comments, but some haven't been posted because they are coming through as "anonymous." This has been a long-standing problem for the comment system here at blogger, and in the past four years I've insisted on use of a name, any name, (url not required) in order to post a comment. This allows people to exchange comments; if there are many "anonymous" comments it is impossible to sort them out. If I have time I will occasionally post an anonymous comment with the first word or two from the post for the name, but this is very hit-and-miss and often depends the time of the day and my mood. So if you want to assure your comment is posted, at the very least click the "name" button and enter something or sign your comment at the end. Do not use the anonymous option unless you want me to be the only person reading it.


There You Go said...

Cheating is from the 12's thru the adult leagues...no new subject. So, where can it be stopped? Start with the parents.

jane said...

Agree, cheating starts with the parents.

pat said...

can't work. half the parents and coaches are cheaters also. It is a taught and learned skill

competent officials on every court.

K McCarthy said...

Cheating is prevalent without a doubt and tennis is full of close calls. Not all the calls go your way, even when called correctly.

Having the kids call the lines is like having the catcher in baseball call the balls and strikes or the players call the fouls in basketball. That would never work.

Players put way too much time and parents way too much money to get turned away by cheating. USTA needs to get more officials on the courts and the officials need to be proactive in getting the game called fairly. An extra $ 20 or 30 a tournament would be well worth it and a drop in the bucket for what most parents spend.


Cheaters never win...except when they do. And we hate it when they do.

In the 5+ years that we’ve been involved in junior tennis, our cameras have seen that cheating has increased (and continues to increase) to almost unimaginable levels. We see it and we hear about it constantly from players and parents and others. The specific circumstances may change from tournament to tournament but we see it ALL THE TIME and we think it needs to stop.

For the remainder of this and other observations, refer to http://httobservations.blogspot.com/2011/03/bad-characters-are-bad-news.html.

If we don't at least talk about the problem, we can't begin to solve it!


The correct link to our blog is http://httobservations.blogspot.com/. Sorry about that...